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Oral Sex

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Introducing Oral Sex

Oral sex is for many couples one of the most pleasurable sexual activities. The mouth provides warm, moist intimate contact which is not found in manual stimulation. The expert precision of the tongue and lips allows for a mastery of their partner's desires. Others see oral sex as a gesture of trust and intimacy; a reassurance that the genitals are erotic and sensual to the other partner. Many couples refrain from the practice altogether. Whatever your feelings, like other expressions of sexuality, oral sex is an art that gets better with experience.

Like intercourse, there are a variety of techniques and positions which can enhance the pleasure received from oral sex. The best advice, however, is to learn from trial and error. Oral sex should be a playful discovery of what your partner finds arousing. Talk to each other, experiment and remember the types of stimulation that made your partner blush with excitement.

If you are receiving oral sex, be open with your partner as to what it is you find stimulating. Make sure your partner knows all of the techniques you use during masturbation. Gently and playfully tell them when something is displeasing to you. Listen carefully to the sounds your partner makes. Make sounds when something is pleasing to you. Remember these rules, and with a little advice from the following sections you too can be a great oral lover.