Guide To Better Sex
Love and Toys
The Story Behind the Vibrator
What is a vibrator?
A vibrator is an electric device that massages areas of the body, particularly the penis, vagina and anus. The most common use of vibrators is by women for masturbation, but many men use vibrators to suppliment their sexual experiences. Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, and have many different kinds of surfaces for contact. If you're open to vibrators, they can offer an exciting and rewarding flavor to everyday sex or masturbation. Some women describe the sexual feeling from a vibrator as one of the most intense possible.
What is a dildo?
Dildos are a favorite of men and women alike, their existence dating back several millennia. When women become sexually aroused the vagina balloons and the uterus elevates; and it is only normal for some women to wish to feel the fullness of penetration. This does not mean that a dildo should be regarded as a surrogate for the penis, as a dildo can take on many different shapes and sizes. A dildo is a sexual toy that is many things to many women. For men, a dildo can offer stimulation of the prostate -a sensation similar to orgasm- when used anally. Both hetero- and homosexual men use dildos for self-pleasure and with their partners.
Enjoying Anal Toys
What are anal toys?
Anal toys have a particular stigma associated with them that other sex toys just don't have; anal toys are inserted into the rectum. As children many of us may have learned that the rectum is a dirty, forbidden place. What many of us did not learn is that the anus is an erogenous zone for both men and women. The rectum contains a collection of nerves which are used in the waste excretion process. When these nerves are stimulated in the right way, they can provide immense pleasure. Furthermore, men can experience a great deal of pleasure having their prostate gland massaged with anal toys. The prostate gland is associated with the nerves that trigger orgasm and when it is massaged with an anal toy the results can be electrifying.
How do I use anal toys?
Anal toys are a safe form of enjoyment when you follow the necessary precautions. It is essential to use lubricant every time anal toys are inserted. In addition, anal toys should have a flange or handle which prevents the toy from proceeding too far into the anus. You must be gentle when playing with anal toys. The anus was not constructed with penetration in mind, so the insertion of a long object (over 4 inches) can cause problems in the lower intestines. Your large intestine takes a large turn to the right and a long, firm anal toy can tear the surrounding tissues. Finally and most importantly, you must learn to relax. The ability to relax your rectum is essential to the enjoyment of anal toys.