Sexual Health FAQ
How does menopause affect the body sexually?
Menopause is perhaps the greatest physical change a woman faces in middle age. Menopause generally alters sexual response and even the physical structure of the vagina. The major changes with regards to sex that occur are thinning and shortening of the vaginal canal and decreased lubrication. This is sometimes accompanied by a decrease in the size of the vagina. Fatty deposits found in the labia majora are lost causing a typically smaller vagina than in earlier life. The combination of reduced lubrication and a smaller vagina may make coitus uncomfortable. Read more about Natural Changes in Women.
What is impotence?
Impotence is the inability to have an erection. The causes of impotence are most often psychological, although some physical ailments may contribute to erectile failure. Read more about Impotence.
What is premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems. The condition is most often described as being an inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. The definition of when ejaculation is premature is subjective. While some men have trouble controlling their orgasm upon entry, others consider 5-10 minutes of copulation too little time. How long a man is able to last is not the important factor in diagnosing premature ejaculation. The crucial issue is if a man is satisfied with the length of coitus. Read more about Male Sexual Problems.
How effective are condoms?
When condoms are used properly, they are about 95% effective in the prevention of pregnancy. When condoms are used with spermicidal foam, their effectiveness rate is nearly 100%. Furthermore, condoms provide excellent protection from the spread of sexually transmitted diseases, although the exact rates of success are unknown. The latex condom is the recommended form of STD and pregnancy prevention. Read more about Safer Sex.
What is a dental dam?
A dental dam is basically a small sheet of latex which acts as a barrier between the vagina or anus and the mouth. Dental dams get their name because they are used during dental surgery such as root canals. Due to the possible infectious secretions from both the vagina and anus, the dental dam is becoming a more popular safer sex tool. With the introduction of different colors, shapes and sizes, manufacturers are adding some exciting changes to what once was sterile translucent-white latex.Read more about Safer Sex.
What is fellatio?
Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. One thing that remains true in all oral sex encounters with a man is the value of good communication. Finding out what he is used to will go a long way to performing satisfying oral sex. Usually it is best to ask a man after he has received oral sex so that he can recount what aspects he most enjoyed. Through a few easy principles you can learn what makes incredible fellatio possible. Read more about Fellatio.
What is cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus refers to stimulation of a woman's genitals with her partner's mouth. This can include sucking or licking the outer and inner areas of the vagina, and most often involves direct stimulation of the clitoris. Some women find cunnilingus the most satisfying part of sex. Indeed, a great number of women say oral sex is the only way they can achieve orgasm. The mouth can create a uniquely intense range of sensations which many find unrivaled. Read more about Cunnilingus.
What is a vibrator?
A vibrator is an electric device that massages areas of the body, particularly the penis, vagina and anus. The most common use of vibrators is by women for masturbation, but many men use vibrators to suppliment their sexual experiences. Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes, and have many different kinds of surfaces for contact. If you're open to vibrators, they can offer an exciting and rewarding flavor to everyday sex or masturbation. Some women describe the sexual feeling from a vibrator as one of the most intense possible. Read more about Sex Toys.
What is a dildo?
Dildos are a favorite of men and women alike, their existence dating back several millennia. When women become sexually aroused the vagina balloons and the uterus elevates; and it is only normal for some women to wish to feel the fullness of penetration. This does not mean that a dildo should be regarded as a surrogate for the penis, as a dildo can take on many different shapes and sizes. A dildo is a sexual toy that is many things to many women. For men, a dildo can offer stimulation of the prostate -a sensation similar to orgasm- when used anally. Both hetero- and homosexual men use dildos for self-pleasure and with their partners. Read more about Sex Toys.